I came to this world on 22nd February 2001 as a lovely little kid. I was an apple of the eye for my parents who used to ogle at me all the time as I was a chubby little girl. I had a funny speech which included words like A2, Pepsi, Yaiya etc.

 I had my own world in the form of my imaginations, I used to wonder about various things and used to create mental images of what most people used to think in terms of words. I still have this imagination which makes me look at the things in my world quite vividly.


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